How to belong to a community

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  • community
  • social
  • event
  • communication
  • feedback
  • connection
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Today, I want to talk about the social aspect of our industry. For the longest time, I thought that being an exceptional developer meant that I had to know and use as many technologies as possible. This can be a “burden” if you think about it. Let’s explore some solutions.

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Most of the developers, including myself, are introverts. This is not surprising, since our joy is connected to intangible achievements like writing a “good library,” ensuring “your algorithm works,” or seeing that the “UX is improving.” To avoid burnout, we must collaborate, which requires some level of social connection. It’s easier if you are sympathetic to people. For me, this is a challenging aspect, and I constantly have to think about it because, most of the time, my facial expressions do not accurately reflect how I feel.

I’m blessed that my current employer supports courses to improve my social skills:

These helped me to communicate better with my colleagues. Teaching, mentoring, sharing my thoughts asking help.

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Another solution is to attend social events, like participating in a conference. This has several benefits:

This is how I think about it, and I always try to get the most out of opportunities like this, such as JS Nation and React Summit this week. Even though the talks and speakers were not as enjoyable as last year, I enjoyed the event as a whole. I talked with people at booths, got familiar with their companies, and learned what they do. Some were more friendly than others, but that doesn’t matter. What matters is that you have a good time because we only live once. I feel bad when I see someone standing in the middle of the hall like a lost little duckling 🐥 who lost its mother. C’mon.

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My favorite talks and most inspiring people from the venues - not in any particular order:

Connecting with people gives me a productive feeling even though I am not working at all. After the conference, I feel much more confident and relaxed.

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